
Tailbone Pain That Won't Quit: Is It Your Coccyx, or Your Pelvic Floor?
Tailbone pain that's worse when you sit might not be your coccyx at all. How to tell whether it's the bone or the pelvic floor pulling on it, and what helps each.

There's a particular ache that shows up in the middle of your cycle, usually on one side, sometimes sharp, sometimes more like a deep cramp. If you've ever found yourself googling "why does my ovary hurt" around day 14, this one is for you. You're not imagining it, and you're definitely not alone.
It has a real name: mittelschmerz, which is German for "middle pain," and it affects up to 40% of people who ovulate [1]. Here's what's happening in there. In the days leading up to ovulation, the growing follicle stretches the surface of your ovary, which can ache on its own. Then, when the egg releases, a small amount of fluid (and sometimes a little blood) escapes with it, and that fluid can irritate the sensitive lining of your pelvis for a while [2].
For most people it lands on one side, it can switch sides from month to month depending on which ovary is up that cycle, and it lasts anywhere from a few minutes to a day or so. Pain that stretches toward 48 hours happens, but it's less common [1].
This is the question I care most about, because the textbook answer stops at the ovary, and your body doesn't.
Your pelvic floor muscles sit right underneath everything that's happening mid-cycle, and muscles respond to pain signals by guarding. If your pelvic floor already holds tension, from stress, from posture, from a history of painful periods or conditions like endometriosis, then a normal ovulation signal lands on muscles that are already braced. Braced muscles turn a whisper into a shout, and hormone shifts across your cycle can change muscle tone too [3].
In my practice, I see a version of this often: someone whose mid-cycle pain has crept from noticeable to disruptive, and when we assess, the ovary is doing exactly what it's supposed to do. It's the muscles around it that are working overtime.
Start with the comfortable basics. Heat on your lower belly, a warm bath, and gentle movement all help take the edge off, and tracking your cycle means the pain stops ambushing you, which honestly matters more than it sounds.
If your ovulation pain is strong enough to change your plans, that's where pelvic floor physical therapy earns its place. We look at whether your pelvic floor is holding tension it doesn't need, and we treat that layer directly: hands-on work to release overactive muscles, breathing strategies that let the pelvic floor actually relax, and movement that keeps it from re-bracing [3]. The goal is simple: a normal ovulation should register as a blip, not a bad day.
If your pain also flares around your period or with sex, those patterns are worth paying attention to. I've written about what's actually causing your pelvic pain and how endometriosis and the pelvic floor interact, and both connect to this story.
Most ovulation pain is harmless, and I don't want you to sit at home worrying about an ache that's truly routine. That said, please get checked promptly if you notice any of these [4]:
Ovarian cysts, endometriosis, and pelvic infections can all hide behind "it's probably just ovulation," and they deserve a proper look from your doctor. This article is education, not a diagnosis, so when in doubt, ask your healthcare provider.
A twinge you notice is normal. Pain you have to plan around is worth addressing, and there's real help for it. If you're in Anaheim Hills or nearby and mid-cycle pain has been running your calendar, I'd love to help you figure out what's actually going on.
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